6 Dress Tips For The Mother Of The Bride(egom)

Your role as the mother of the bride or groom is a great honor. In a way, you’re the co-star on their big day. While it is a privilege to be a part of their wedding day in such an important way, there are also some responsibilities that you carry.

One of those responsibilities is to wear something elegant and appropriate. If you have no idea what to wear on this momentous occasion, keep reading for some tips.

Your role as the mother of the bride or groom during the wedding

The role of the mothers of the bride and groom in a wedding is very important to the ceremony. The job of the mother of the bride is to accompany the bride to the church and stay by her side until the ceremony begins.

This also applies to the mother of the groom. They are there to calm the bride and groom and help with everything related to the wedding.

The groom’s mother often accompanies the groom to the altar as well. Both mothers will sit in the front row. They will also sit at their table with the bride and groom during the reception and dinner.

While there are many responsibilities to think of as a mother of the bride, it can be difficult to choose the perfect outfit to wear on the wedding day. Here we will discuss a few guidelines when it comes to choosing an outfit.

1. Don’t wear white

White and other colors close to white are ‘forbidden’. The mothers of the bride and groom should not wear white. Besides, no one attending a wedding should wear white. This is because the color white is reserved for the bride.

That said, you should also not wear similar colors, e.g. beige, ivory, off-white, etc. This is the bride’s big day and no one should try to outdo the bride.

2. Don’t wear black either

On the other hand, the mothers of the bride and groom should also not wear black. This is a color associated with funerals and gloom and should really be avoided on this joyous occasion.

In case the mother of the bride or groom is grieving, she can always make an exception for her child’s joyful wedding and choose to wear a different color on this day. However, you can still choose to wear a dark color.

3. The mother’s dress should compliment the bride’s dress

It is best to choose a dress that suits the wedding style. You can choose a style similar to the bride’s, but remember that you should not wear a dress that is more eye-catching or detailed than the bride’s wedding dress.

The mothers of the bride and groom should know the style of the wedding and choose a dress that goes well with the rest of the wedding. For example, if the wedding is formal and the wedding dress and bridesmaid dresses are all ankle-length, then the mothers of the groom and bride should also choose an ankle-length dress that is a little more formal.

4. Keep it simple

The wedding is about the groom and the bride. The bride should stand out among everyone. For this reason, it is best if the mother of the groom and the bride choose a dress that is not too flashy. They should also refrain from wearing too much jewelry or flashy accessories.

5. The style should be elegant and simple

With the aforementioned tip, the style of the dress should be simple. If the wedding takes place in a church, the dress should be more modest and in line with any (religious) traditions. For example, it would be inappropriate for the mother of the bride or groom to wear a plunging neckline dress.

6. Wearing a veil by the mother of the bride

In some cultures and beliefs, it is customary for the mother of the bride or groom to wear a veil. If you want to wear a veil, it can be any color.

However, it is best to first consult with the bride about wearing a veil. On the other hand, in many cultures the mothers of the bride and groom do not wear a special veil or headgear.

Finally, remember that being a mother of the groom or bride comes with a lot of responsibilities. You should have an elegant, modest and pleasant appearance on the day of the wedding and wear discreet colors. This ensures that you do not overshadow the bridal couple.